This is the perfect time of year for teaching kids about sharing and having a giving spirit. For any child, sharing can be tough. Let’s admit it, we all have some tendencies toward selfishness. For a child, the holidays can offer some unique challenges when it comes to sharing.
The holidays can be a bit overwhelming for everyone, especially children. For those children with ADHD or ASD, the holidays can be especially tough. You can help your child or children prepare for the stress of the holidays and encourage a giving spirit at the same time. Start by talking about all of the changes to your routine that will take place.
Children with ADHD and ASD benefit from routine. At the very least, letting them know in advance that their routine will be disrupted might help lessen some of their discomfort. While Christmas isn’t here quite yet, the stores and media are making sure that children are already thinking about it. Try making a holiday calendar for your family. It is a fun activity to do together.
On top of that stress comes the reality of having to share new toys. If you are expecting lots of company, prepare your child, especially if there will be other children there! You might even consider allowing your child to put away one or two favorite toys but stress that the rest of the toys are for sharing.
Another great lesson to teach during this time is sharing with others without expecting anything in return. You might let your child put some money into the Salvation Army’s bucket at the local mall, or let your child choose a toy to donate to an organization that has a toy drive.
By preparing your child ahead of time, you can reduce the stress for both of you while teaching important lessons.