For many families expecting a child, a baby shower is a rite of passage.
The tradition is no different for those welcoming an adopted child into their family. A new baby is celebrated with many of the same festivities as a so-called “traditional baby shower.”
The website “Plan the Perfect Baby Shower” offers tips to keep in mind when throwing a baby shower for an adoptive family.
Experts suggest avoiding surprise adoption shower parties, because many children need time to adjust once they’ve arrived in their new homes. Three to four weeks after a baby has arrived home to his or her adoptive family is a good time frame for allowing everyone to get settled into a routine before celebrating, the website suggests.
It’s also important to carefully word the shower invitations to make sure recipients understand the child is adopted, and also to include the child’s birthdate when possible so party-goers can purchase an age-appropriate gift.
It’s a good idea for guests to avoid conversations about birth, labor and pregnancy if those topics may be hurtful to a new adoptive mom who is feeling sensitive about not going through those processes herself.
Once you’ve set a date, it’s time to start on the party planning fun!
Celebs like Denise Richards, who welcomed her newborn daughter Eloise in 2011, have thrown baby showers post-adoption to introduce new family members to friends. Richards chose a theme of “Three’s a Charm!” for her shower.
How will you welcome a new addition in the lives of adoptive families you know?